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Sunday, May 11, 2008

♡ Stuff & more stuff...

Saturday after our not so fun ending shopping trip the kids slept until about 4:30 which was really nice! So instead of being able to go to my friend's child's baptism (that was a mouthful) I watched No Reservations. There was no way on earth I was going to wake those crazy kids and Joe was sleeping. Usually Joe comes home and stays up for a little bit to wind down but yesterday he stayed up longer so that Emma could make me breakfast "in bed"... Waffles with syrup. I decided to just go to the table. :) I hate GRAVEYARD!!! The kids are noisy all day I don't know how he can sleep through it. Although I have to say I'm over trying to keep them quiet. I can't do it and it's just frustrating and turns me into a horrible mean mom. So I send them outside or down stairs but other than that there's not much else I can do.

I loved the movie. It was PG and just a "good and clean" all the way around. Then the kids woke up and we watched Alvin & The Chipmunks. The kids LOVED it. This is a video of Olivia dancing around to their music! She was so cute.

Sunday morning started out alright and I got all the kids bathed and hair done. Joe was sleeping. He's been working graveyard. I'm so glad that it's almost OVER! So I got to deal with the kids and they were definitely on one all morning... Here's Olivia before she turned into a little phsyco...

I tried doing THIS hair do and I suck. Couldn't figure out how to do it. AT ALL!!! So I went with this instead! She was actually really good. I didn't even have to hold her down!

Now with the dress on...

Eliza's hair... She's the trickiest one. Her hair is so thin and short it's hard to do.

Then the day took a turn for the worst and all hell broke loose. Olivia found a permanent marker! She colored all over herself and Lanes bedroom wall.

Her right arm that looks like there isn't any marker... I already scrubbed that off. It came off okay but do you see how red her arm is. Her legs didn't come off as well. Not sure why. Baby wipes work pretty good on skin!


Then Lane decided to take some pictures... Not to big of a deal... It's not like I can't just delete them... I don't know why he wanted to take pictures of the TV but whatever. He took about 20 pictures okay maybe it was more like 10 or 15...



This is where I start to rant so if you don't want to hear anything negative just stop here! Lane comes running out while I'm putting my makeup on and says that Olivia is spilling oil. WHAT where the crap did she get oil. Somehow they grabbed it from out of the cupboard. I thought I was okay and she really didn't spill it. The cap was on and I couldn't see any messes. So I took it away and put it up even higher. Finished my make up and then went to find another dress for Olivia. I sat down on Lanes bed to grab out a dress and put my hand down next to me and I found the oil. Luckily Lane has a plastic sheet under his regular one so it didn't get all over the mattress and thank heavens I didn't sit in it. BECAUSE I think the tiny, itty bitty, little, rather tiny, small sting that was holding me together didn't BREAK!!! You don't even want to know what my kitchen table looked like... Seriously spilled milk, sugar, cereal and water and who knows what else! Lane now knows how to unlock the fridge. Eliza & Olivia haven't figured it out yet but I'm sure that will come soon enough. Olivia peed the bed and Eliza too! LOVELY! Screaming, fighting, temper tantrums, going crazy, yelling and everything else that you can think of... Kids going physco and me wanting too. The day from HELL... Usually mother's day is a good day for me. However this year everything SUCKED. Brother Flowers cracks me up and when we got to church I was sternly telling Eliza to get her butt in the chapel right now. When he shook my hand and asked if I was ready for some straight jackets and Valium! YES PLEASE!!! I almost burst into tears! NO KIDDING!!! Other people would talk to me and again I'd be lucky to walk away without bursting into tears. So if you talked to me yesterday and I didn't say much it was just because the tiny little string was still just barely there. I had to play the opening hymn in Relief Society and I seriously haven't played the piano for 4 years. I played in primary while I was pregnant with the twins and was doing alright with it. I haven't practiced since I've had the twins. I don't even have a piano in my house. So I'm playing Hymn 2 The Spirit of God and I SUCK! I screw up several times and I'm not playing it fast enough (I think) and we do 2 verses and then the conductor goes ahead and stops it right there. Probably trying to spare me and everyone else from my crappy playing. But seriously a couple weeks before they had me do it then too and they all know I SUCK so really don't ask me if you don't REALLY want me to play! So just another thing to add to my cruddy day... I tried really hard all through church not to dwell on it I really did. It helped keep me together a little bit longer but then some one would say something touching and normally I don't cry at all... I've gotten really good at it... I can't even tell you how many times I had to suck it up yesterday. BLECH! I just wanted to go hide. I thought about just leaving and coming home but then I'd have to get the Honda keys from Joe and give him my keys and I didn't think I could deal with talking to him cause then I'd really loose it. So I sucked it up and fought my way through it all and came home and was tempted to hide in my room. Not that it would have worked because I can HEAR everything going on... So instead I started cleaning up the mess from the morning and then we got kids to bed and they were OUT in less than 5 minutes. I went to bed at 8:00. I woke up at 3 am... Thought about getting up but turned over and went back to bed. Woke up again at 5am... And then just layed there until 6 and got up. I feel so much better... Which is crazy... Yesterday I thought I was just going to fall apart and today I'm fine... What's WRONG with me! Joe says I'm pregnant but I'm not! Seriously!!! NOT! But I have days like yesterday when I'm pregnant. I just about bit someones head off when I was pregnant with Emma just because the guy wanted me to change the date on a check I wrote at Costco... I put the wrong date... That was it... Oh yeah and I think I'm going to have to email our Doctor cause Eliza's mood swings are DRIVING ME CRAZY!!! I wonder if her meds aren't off or something???

25 comments:

Jeanne said...

MAN!!! Sounds like you've had a sucky crappy day. I'm so sorry!!!!

They will get better as they get older...right?

Good luck!!!

Kelli said...

OHHHHHHHHHHHH. I am so sorry. You need to go on a cruise. They are the best and they even have 90 day cruises. hehe. I dont know where to begin (that was a long post) but the hair was cute. Really cute even if you said you couldnt do it. they both were cute. The ink pen, WOW, next time color her face or something and let her walk around with an entire face colored, maybe comments from others will help, except she would tell them you did it, so that wont work. The oil, the table, the frig lock. WoW. Sorry, Hugs, When do they start kindergarden? or can you send them to missionary training school at 4.

Jaime said...

Yikes! Sorry you had such a rough day. I have occasional days like that-emotional. And just when you pull it all together, someone says something and you completely fall apart all over again. It sucks!
I think the hair styles you did are adorable!:)

raising4boys said...

Thanks for all your sweet comments.

I love long naps for the kids too! Also, thanks for the movie recommendation. It's hard to find good clean movies.

Kellan said...

I'm sorry you had such a bad day! I love the way you always make your girls' hair so beautiful - you do such a good job and they looks so cute!!

Hope you had a good day today - see you soon - Kellan

Gayle said...

sorry your Mother's Day wasn't that great :( Hope you are having a better day today!
Livvy dancing to the Chipmunks is so cute!!!

Summer said...

oh Melissa, I want to give you a hug. I noticed you didn't look so cheerful yesturday. I sensed something was wrong, but I didn't want to be nosey. I'm glad you are having a better day today. Sounds like you need to leave your kids with the grandparents while they're in the same state and then you and Joe take off for a weekend.
Sometimes when I'm not having a good day, I'll have Glen take Ginger to church and I'll stay home in bed and read or sleep just to have nice break from everything for a few hours. It'll be good once Joe is off graveyard.

Summer said...

I forgot to say, I really admire how you take the time to always make your kids look so nice for church. I want to do that with Ginger, but at times it's frustrating because she'll just undo what I do.

SuperCoolMom said...

Oh, I can sooooo sympathize with you! I'm sure glad that things are going better for you today!

KATE said...

Oh sweetie, you just described so many bits & pieces from my day it's scary! I tell ya what, my Mothers Day present to myself yesterday morning was I DIDN'T have to get kids ready for church. Yep, we sluffed I didn't have the strength to care! I know I suck! Honestly, if Brooke was in Nursery I might have considered pushing the issue harder, but since I still had to wrestle her at church & I KNEW I would be a mess (just like you were) I opted out! Again, I know I SUCK! Mothers Day when your kids are little can be pretty stinky! Sorry!

Rachel Berry said...

Sorry you had a hard day. mine wasn't the best either. Hope your day is better today. Just be glad Joe isn't graveyard all the time.
It's almost over.
R.

Anonymous said...

I hate days like these....and I'm really sorry this one happened to fal on mother's day. BLECH!!

Sure hope today is better!

Misty said...

I didn't realize your husband worked graveyards. That is rough, I agree.

And the marker...... Oh the markers... I am SO sorry. I FULLY understand.

Amy said...

I hope you can put your feet up tonight! =)

Jenn said...

I am so sorry-- for everything!

Laura said...

Oh my reading that made me want to come over and take all your kids out so you could have a break! That was one terrible day and on Mother's Day! I am so sorry. I give you a lot of respect for making it to church after all that and then staying the entire time. I would have cried for sure.

I cannot figure out that hair do either. I had to do a twisty thing like you did too. Maybe we can email Jenn for help. I understood the twist part but how many twists and how to wrap them in bunn totally lost me.

Anyway, you deserve to complain a lot about that day. Mother's Day (as nice as it can be) is never a real break. Heck its on a sunday and I have to get three girls ready to go and myself (stress). Your day tops all though!

Tell your hubby you need a GNO or a date night with him to help you recover from that! ((HUGS))

Kelli said...

I know our friend in Indonesia gave us both the i love you award but I am also giving it to you.

Come by my blog and visit. I have something for you. Kelli

Jodi said...

Good thing your Bishop has a sense of humor! (Or lots of kids!)

hang in there...they WILL grow up!!! (Way too fast though!)

Tinabean said...

I'm sorry you had such a crappy day.
You don't know me I found you on my friend Bonnie's blog (The Zoo) but you sound like a wonderful person and I to have a set of twins (boy's). Just wondering if you'd like another friend and set of ears (or eye's in this case).

Janice {Run Far} said...

I am so sorry but I am still laughing at the pictures of the marker all over her skin. Morgie has done that before. And I love that movie too..

Bonnie the Boss said...

I am sooo sorry! I hae days like that. You did great! I mean you didn't leave the children at church and go home. You held it together and made it through the song. I can't even play. So your one up on me. I'm glad things are better. I wouldn' say you are pregnant. I would say it was just a crappy day!

Hethrjem said...

You poor thing. I know several mothers who say that they hate Mother's Day- so you can join their club. Chad worked the graveyard shift at his last job and it sucked but I didn't have kids to watch while he was sleeping.

Hang in there grrrrrl.

Jennifer @ Fruit of My Hands said...

My daughter was a terror with markers too at that age.

SOrry you had a hard day. Nice to see you!

latree said...

what a hard dat...
love the hair do...
hate the marker...

ar and ir also do what lane did with my phone camera, some times until no more memories left in my phonecard

Carrie and Troy Keiser said...

I man! I feel SO bad for you! Glad to hear that the next day was better. Did you get a hold of the dr abt Eliza?
Graveyard SUCKS! Troy just went over to days, and it is SO nice to not have to worry abt the noise level during the day! :) How's the job search coming?